Ahhhh, the joys of being in the bedroom. It almost seems that the male species strictly lives just for this moment of life. Think about how many decisions we’ve made in our lives just to open up an opportunity of getting her in the sack. Insane right? Believe it or not, women enjoy sex more then men (ever wonder why she moans like that and you don’t ?) You just have to get her going and LEAD!

 

Before I go any further I should tell you that you should always practice safe sex to avoid any type of STD’s or unwanted pregnancy. My mother always said, don’t bring another mouth in this world if you can’t feed it!

 

Understanding – it’s not about orgasm, pleasing her only or her only pleasing you. It’s a combination of everything. Having a sexually active relationship will bring both of you closer and it can sometimes fix bad situations. Unplug the world (TV, cell phones) when you’re with her in the bedroom, enjoy yourself and let the animal instinct take over. These instincts have built a world population of over 7 billion, trust me on this; we were born to mate!

 

Self Control - When I first started becoming sexually active, I realized that I couldn’t hold my self for more then 2 minutes. Yes I was once a two pump chump but nevertheless I learned a few tricks to avoid this. One of the easiest methods that I’ve learned is “unloading the gun before leaving your house”, in other words masturbate prior to having intercourse. On the plus side, you’re going to last much longer but on the down side you’re not going to have that animalism or sexuality that you should always bring in the bedroom. It’s all in your mind… one of the best ways to hold it in is not actually think about sex while having it. Sounds weird right? Well try it, think about your favorite baseball team, what you have to do at work tomorrow and when you’re ready for that orgasm put your mind exactly where it is and nature will take over. Also, take longer and slower breaths… I’m not sure what is the science behind that one but Moose here can vouch and say that it works.

 

The “I don’t orgasm during intercourse” females – I still laugh at this one. Women have an extremely complex mind and have 20 different things on their mind at once. Sometimes it’s natural that her mind is just not focused on where it needs to be and it’s your job to bring her mind back to Earth. Orgasms aren’t everything, it is only the cherry on top that completes that tasty banana split. If she ever says ”I don’t orgasm during intercourse” you, stop right away and prepare her mind for it. You can turn the lights down low, light a candle (I never understood the candle but I have to guess that’s is something related to our cave-man days or a camp fire, someone who provided a fire would probably be able to provide a tribe with cooked food, conversation around the fire) and put on some good music. I personally love Bob Marley, and until this day I haven’t met anyone that does not like Bob Marley. You can try to put some soft porn in the background but not all women are into this. After that, look her deep in the eyes and say these words, in a deep, slow voice with a hint of authority: “I want you to clear your mind, I want you to think of nothing but our skin touching each under, the friction of our bodies, the sweat between our bodies and me inside you”. By saying some of these things you will prepare her mind for orgasm and trust me her mind will go along with it because you told her… women will easily do something when told, specially if they are love with you. During intercourse, there are some sensitive areas that will enhance her sexual experience. Playing with her hair, try to rest the palm of your hand in the back of her head and pull some of the hair from the roots (not too hard, you don’t want to distract her with pain). Kissing her ear lobes, her neck and her breasts (her breasts becomes much more sensitive a few days prior to ovulation by the way). Rub your hands/nails in her back and pull her closer to you. All of these things will help her mind focus on you thus facilitating excitement and orgasm.

 

Location and Setting Up The Mood – The bedroom is always great, but plan on making changes sometimes. Try different places: kitchen, living room, closet, car, bathroom at a public location (fyi, careful with this one because it’s considered illegal in most States), parks. Just be sure to turn it into an adventure. Low lighting is key, women are extremely self conscious about their body and this can ease her mood. Music is great also, especially love songs. Women are much more receptive to sound and words then men are. Talk to any female out there, they usually try to relate their feelings with a song to better help them understand their current life’s situation.

 

Foreplay – Learn this: learn to enjoy foreplay Think of women as an old diesel car. It’s hard to turn it on and slam on the gas with the expectation that it’s going to ride the way you want to. Instead you have to start the car and warm it up for a few minutes and after that it will cruise the way you want it to.

 

Try Different Things – Taker her to an adult store once in a while and go find new things to try from time to time. Sexy clothes, toys, videos, etc. Try different locations or even role playing. Doing the same thing over and over can get boring pretty quick, so we need to change the daily routines from time to time. I’m sure you see a middle aged man complaining at work all the time about the lack of sex they get at home. The reason is because they don’t try different things, and the wife is probably bored out of her mind having the same crap over and over.

 

Let Her Please You – Believe it or not, your women loves to please you. She feels a certain type of satisfaction knowing that she is pleasing you. Her confidence will boost up. Many of my lady friends have always said to me “I want him to take control and tell me what ever he wants ME to do for him”. If you want something in bed, don’t ask! Just do it or tell her what you want and chances are she wants to please you and will do what you ask.

 

A Quickie – There’s nothing wrong with an occasional quickie from time to time even if you’re going to be late for an event. Perfect time is right before both of you are getting ready to go somewhere. Stop her in her tracks and tell her you want a quickie. They are fun from time to time and can add some excitement.

 

Surprise Her – The element of surprise never fails. Have fun with her, she is supposed to be your best friend in the journey of life. Play a practical joke once in a while on her. Obviously don’t fart in her face and expect her to laugh, chances are she won’t. I like to hide certain objects underneath the bed and pull them out from time to time. My personal favorite is to arrive home and use my tie as a blindfold. Try to do to DIFFERENT THINGS such as:

 

  • hide in the closet and pop out when she doesn’t know you’re home
  • take her down in the kitchen floor if she’s making something
  • hug her from behind, kiss her neck
  • make love to her just because it’s Tuesday
  •  light a few candles in the middle of the night and wake her up

 

The best thing I can tell you is, try to have fun and enjoy yourself!

 

- Moose

 

Before I go any further I should tell you that you should always practice safe sex to avoid any type of STD’s or unwated pregnancy.  My mother always said, don’t put another mouth on this world if you can’t feed it!

Understanding – It’s not about orgasm, pleasing her only or her only pleasing you.  It’s a combination of everything.  Having a sexually active relationship will bring both of you closer and it can sometimes fix bad situations.  Unplug the world (TV, cell phones) when your with her in the bedroom, enjoy your self and let the animal instinct take over.  These instinct has brought a world population of over 7 billion, trust me on this; We were born to mate!

Self Control – When I first started becoming sexually active, I realized that I couldn’t hold my self for more then 2 minutes.  Yes I was once a two pump chump but never the less I learned a few tricks to avoid this.  One of the easiest methods that I’ve learned is “unloading the gun before leaving your house”, in other words masterbate prior to having intercoarse.  The plus side, your going to last much longer and the down side to this situation is that your not going to have that anamasity or that sexuality that you should always bring in the bedroom.  It’s all in your mind, one of the best ways to hold it in is not actually think about sex while having it.  Sounds weird right?  Well try it, think about your favorite baseball team, what you have todo at work tomorrow and when you’re ready for that orgams put your mind exactly where it is and nature will take over.  Take longer and slower breath, I’m not sure what is the science behind that one but Moose here can vouch and say that it works.

The “I don’t orgasm during intercourse” females - I still laught at this one.  Women have an extremely complex mind and have 20 different things  on their mind at once.  Sometimes it’s natural that her mind is just not focused on where it needs to be and it’s your job to bring her mind back to earth.  Orgasms is not everything, it is only the cherry on top that completes that tasty banana split.  If she ever says ”I don’t orgasm during intercoarse” you, stop right away and prepare her mind for it.  You can turn the lights down low, light a candle (I never understood the candle but I have to guess that’s is something related to our cave days or a camp fire, someone who provided a fire would probably be able to provide a tribe with coocked food, conversation around the fire) and put some good music.  I personally love Bob Marley, until this day I haven’t met anyone that does not like Bob Marley.  You can try to put some soft porn in the background but not all women are into this. After that,  look her deep in the eyes and say these words but in a deep slow voice with a hint of authority ”I want you to clear your mind, I want you to think of nothing but our skin touching each under, the friction of our bodies, the sweat between our bodies and me inside you”. By saying some of these things you will prepare her mind for orgams and trust me her mind will go along with it because you told her, women will easily do something when told, specially if they are love with you.  During intercourse, there are some sensative areas that will enhance her sexual experience.  Playing with her hair, try to rest the palm of your hand in the back of her head and pull some of the hair from the roots (not to hard, you don’t want to distract her with pain).  Kissing her ear loabs, her neck and her breats (her breast becomes much more sensative a few days prior to ovulation by the way).  Rub your hands/nails in her back and pull her closer to you.  All of these things will help her mind focus on you thus facilitating excitement and orgasm.

Location and Setting Up The Mood  - The bedroom is always great, but plan on making changes sometimes.  Try different places; kitchen, living room, closet, car, bathroom at a public location (fyi, careful with this one because it’s considered illegal in most states), parks.  Just be sure to turn into an adventure.  Low lighting is key, women are extremely self conscious about their body and this can ease her mood.  Music is great also, specially love songs.  Women are much more receptive to sound and words then men are.  Talk to any female out there, they usually try to relate their feelings with a song to better help them understand their current life’s situation.

Four Play – Learn this, learn to enjoy four play.  Think of women as an old diesel car.  It’s hard to turn it on and slam on the gas with the expectation that it’s going to ride the way you want to.  Instead you have to start the car and warm it up for a few minutes and after that it will cruise the way you want it to.

Try Different Things – Taker her to a XXX store once in a while and go find new things to try from time to time.  Sexy clothes, toys, videos, etc..  Try different locations or even role playing.  Doing the same thing over and over and get boring pretty quick, so we need to change the daily routines from time to time.  I’m sure you see a middle aged men complaining at work all the time about the lack of sex they get at  home.  The reason it’s because they don’t try different things, and the wife is probably bored out of her mind having the same crap over and over.

Let Her Please You – Believe it or not, your women loves to please you.  She feels a certain type of satisfaction knowing that she is pleasing you.  Her confidence will boost up.  Many of my ladies friends has always said to me “I wan’t him to take control and tell me what ever he wants ME to-do for him”.  If you want something in bed, don’t ask!  Just do it or tell her what you want and chances are she wants to please you and will do what you ask.

A Quickie – There’s nothing wrong with an occasional quickie from time to time even if your going to be late for an event.  Perfect time is right before both of you are getting ready to go somewhere.  Stop her in her tracks and tell her you want a quickie.  They are fun from time to time and can add some excitement.

Surprise Her – The element of surprise never fails.  Have fun with her, she is suppose to be your best friend in the journey of life.  Play a practical joke once in a while with her.  Obviously don’t fart in her face and expect her to laugh, chances are she won’t.  I like to hide certain objects underneath the bed and pull them out from time to time.  My personal favorite is arrival home and my tie as a blindfold method.  Try to do to DIFFERENT THINGS such as:

hide in the closet and pop out when she doesn’t know your home

taker her down in the ktichen floor is shes making something

hug her from behind, kiss her neck

make love to her just because it’s Tuesday

light a few candles in the middle of the night and wake her up

The best thing I can tell you is, try to have fun and enjoy yourself!

- Moose

 


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